Is My Child Ready to Receive Holy Communion?

More than a generation ago many Lutheran congregations in North America began separating First Communion from Confirmation.  There are many factors to consider in determining when first communion is ready to be received, not only if they are in 2nd grade or higher but also, e.g., a child’s maturity, a child’s experience in the church, a child’s family as a supportive context for faith, discipleship and understanding, etc.

The following questions are provided to help you determine the readiness of your child to receive her or his first Holy Communion:
  • Has your child been baptized and is in 2nd grade or higher?
  • Is your child comfortable in various locations around the church, including the Bema, Ambo and Altar?
  • Is your child asking questions about Holy Communion?
  • Will your child extend his or her hands when asked to do so?
  • Does your child recognize the pastor(s) and seem to be able to interact enough with them to receive the elements (bread and wine)?
  • Is your child aware enough of others in the congregation and their needs to show a degree of respect for their communion experience?
  • Are you prepared to help make the process positive?
  • Are you prepared to continue to fulfill the promises you made at your child’s baptism to bring him or her regularly to the Lord’s Table?
Only the first question requires a "Yes" before your child can be considered ready to receive his or her first communion. Use the others to generate discussion and to plan, for child’s preparation to begin receiving the sacrament and the gifts it brings.